Our first lesson, on our path to creating a new set of mind habits, will be the 'Be willing to be WRONG' stage.
Truth be told, rightness and wrongness, outside of factual evidence, are relative terms. The continued quest to be right about everything all the time can lead to being inflexible to change and mental exhaustion.
Most of us have a real problem with this one. This one step could possibly decide the rest of your lives.
We, as a people, have an insatiable, egotistical, and somewhat maniacal appetite to be --
right....
all the time.....
without learning the details....
with less than all the facts.......
You must abandon this old way of thinking.
... Let that part of you go....
PERIOD.
As I've mentioned on the homepage, everything that we encounter has rules, laws, that we must adhere to.
These aren't laws that I have made up on my own, these are laws that have been decided upon by another power.
We simply need to understand and use what stands before us. Be ready to create a new set of norms and habits.
In order to change your future you must change your present self.
For example, In order to fit into those nice new clothes for summertime you must be willing to eat the correct foods and exercise, NOW.
In order to graduate from your school's curriculum and receive your educational degree you must be willing to study, NOW.
So likewise, in order to experience your purpose you must be willing to condition your mind, NOW.
Trust me when I tell you that the date will arrive. Be ready for that appointed date by preparing yourself right now.
The simple part of creating new mind habits is to change,
-at this moment in time,
-not after a commercial break,
-not after you've surfed the net,
-not after you call your bff, but
...RIGHT NOW.
Let's take an inventory as to what you already know:
-What vivid mental story did you form of your purpose ?
-What exciting mental sights did you see ?
-What sounds did you hear ?
-What did you smell ?
-What feeling came over you while you maintained this experience ?
-Have you achieved, received, or obtained your purpose ?
-What was your overall purpose in achieving that target ?
-Did you achieve that purpose?
-Did you write that purpose ?
-How did you decide on that purpose ?
-Did you act out that purpose ?
..... And now that you have read these questions and partially answered them, reread them and write the questions and full answers this time.
answer in full paragraphs, let your mind flow...
Nevermind about grammatical errors,
...just write...
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